When I tried to explain to him what I meant, I was unable to find the right words to say.
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Fellow single women, we’ve grown tired of hearing the same things, over and over again: “Why don’t you have a boyfriend?
” “You’re too pretty to be single.” “So, you’re single… ” For the years I’ve remained single, I’ve repeatedly fired back with one simple answer: “I’m not in love with anyone.” They say that when you fall in love with someone, you feel euphoria and weak in the knees.
Supposedly, “you just know.” It’s something over which you have no control.
But, other people tell me that to love someone is a “choice,” something you can and do control.
I respected him; I trusted him; I even loved him — but I was not in love with him.
To love a man is to support his passions; to be in love with a man is not only to back his passions, but also to admire them to the point that his hunger for them motivates you to be just as hungry for yours.
To love a man is to share all of your thoughts with him; to be in love with a man is to share all of your thoughts with him, and when you’re not with him, to see him in every place you go, think of him with every person you meet and feel him in every scent you smell.
I’ve come to realize that people are not telling me about the same force, but rather, about two completely different forces: being in love and loving. One can exist without the other, while one of them cannot. We love our parents because they go to the ends of the earth for us.
We love our friends because we can confide everything in them.
We love our boyfriends because they are there for us.
But, how do we know if we were in love with our boyfriends? One morning, I woke up and realized something: I wasn’t in love with the man next to me.