This video is dedicated to all of the men and woman that are actually and genuinely interested in dating trans woman.Hope this helps some of you cis males and females understand a little better!XOXO Miss Monroe -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- FOLLOW ME AND KEEP IN TOUCH!!!
Valentine’s Day is coming up and I thought I’d dole out some more handy advice for you daters out there.
I would like to talk about the art of “the compliment”.
Really, I think this deserves its own blog post because it is THAT important.
In the past, I remember dates and boyfriends that I had that couldn’t compliment worth a damn. But if you want this lady to stick around, don’t compliment her butt, boobs, legs, etc. But for a the first couple of dates, keep it classy. Keep it to 1-2 compliments a date Don’t go on and on about how wonderful she is.
They had no clue how to be around a girl and respectfully give a girl the compliment she deserves. Keep compliments 1-2 sentences once or twice a date.
Because frankly, she DOES deserve at least ONE compliment if you’re dating her. I literally stopped a guy in his tracks on the way to the date (and honey, I don’t pull that stunt often) and my date had nothing to say. If you want a girl to stick around, compliment her, because if you don’t, she’ll think you’re not interested and she’ll start doubting your feelings for her.
For example, I dated a guy back in the day that NEVER complimented me. Probably dated for like a month and a half and it fizzled quickly. I might as well wore a brown bag and called it a day. Don’t Be Sappy Don’t say “the twinkle in your eyes brings me hope of love blossoming….” or something creepy like that. You’ll just accomplish making her feel super awkward because no guy has ever said anything like that to her and she’ll probably think your foreign or something. Keep it short, keep it sweet Say something like, “you look really nice today”, “your eyes are beautiful” or “you look gorgeous”. That’s pretty much the highest compliment you can give a girl. Time it Right Compliment her at the beginning of the date when you first see her. And you can compliment her once in the conversation when it feels right, or during a romantic moment, like before/after a kiss.
I think the rule of thumb is if you have been dating awhile and feel the relationship is going somewhere then it is okay to bring them along to meet the family. Every family is dysfunctional so why subject your new potential beau to the craziness?
I find I don’t enjoy myself because I am worried my family will embarrass me and what they will think of my date. Keep this relationship under wraps for as long as you can until you think it may be long term!
I know my family will be scrutinizing this guy and comparing him to other relationships in my life. Better yet, if the relationship doesn’t work out then at the next holiday gathering, the family is wondering what happened to your man. The best way to enjoy the holidays with your crazy family is alone!!!
You can see the thoughts running through their heads….